ok, to not spoil the atmosphere of the previous post, i really buay ta han. have to blog here. in a seperate post. remember the 8pm show i was saying? cus they opened the hotline to the public to call in right? omg. i HATE it when people compares your pain with theirs? i mean, ya, she's really quite silly to kill herself and stuff, but unless u're her, its hard to rationalise? and stop saying that u are worse off than her!? who are you to compare?! and will it help her feel better if you called in and say "omg.. pls la, ur prob is nothing.. " then why dont u be on tv? i mean, i really hate it when sometimes i tell people how tired i am or sth like that.. and they'd be like "waa. im more tired than u eh.. blablablah". honestly, if the roles were switched, i would rather have abit of empathy which might make u feel better. as "indian finishing school" taught me, you cannot tell people that u are worse off to make them feel that they are better off than you. it only works if they realise it themselves. its really pointless comparing "who is suffering the most". so what if you suffered more? lol! its not supposed to make me feel better.
so instead, why dont you.. just lend them your listening ear to complain? or just let them be by themselves, instead of going .. "waa. you're tired? im worse can.."
i know i sound like a know-it-all.. but ya.. a lot of people do it.. and it kinda bugs me. because not only is that person/s not helping improve the situation, it worsens it? idk. maybe its just me. lol
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